Ryder is 8 years old and has been riding at PARDS for almost 2 years. As a result of his Fetal Alcohol Syndrome diagnosis, Ryder experiences high anxiety, difficulty regulating his emotional responses, challenges with maintaining his focus and attention and recently has developed an extreme auditory sensory response which makes certain sounds almost painful for him. His loving grandparents took on guardianship of Ryder and, in an effort to help him find an activity he could thrive in, introduced him to PARDS. Ryder immediately fell in love with the horses and agreed that he wanted to participate in riding lessons. Ryder started out in one-on-one lessons where he was able to get to know his horse, progress at his own pace and receive individual attention to help him ride safely in a controlled and supportive environment.
Ryder took to riding like a duck takes to water. His bond with his horse Alby has resulted in him being able to be in the moment when he is in his lesson; and the empathy he shows for Alby in recognizing his own mood and behaviour impacts Alby’s mood and behaviour is truly beautiful to witness. The effort Ryder puts in to being calm, focused and caring when interacting with Alby is inspirational, especially when considering the challenges he experiences in these areas.
Ryder is now participating in a group lesson format so he can work on his social skills while developing his riding abilities. He is a shining light in our week and, at such a young age, inspires us with his determination to enjoy his time with Alby and his fellow riders while learning strategies to help him focus and be a welcome part of his riding group.
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